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Grief & the Worst Summer of Travel I've Ever had

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This vlog is a mix of everyday comfort and overwhelming emotion. Starting the week at home with cooking and resetting for everything to shift when I try to get to Florida for a funeral. After missing three flights and dealing with nonstop travel chaos, I finally made it on the fourth flight. This has been one of the hardest summers I’ve experienced, not just as a flight attendant, but as a passenger. The stress, the grief, the delays and chaos, while its all painful it was still worth it in the end because showing up is what I realized is whats most important. Instagram: https://bit.ly/3aakHTZ Substack: https://bit.ly/40f9vjR ShopMy: https://shopmy.us/balancedflyer Pique Life: https://bit.ly/3MLMWfC Merit Beauty: https://muse.meritbeauty.com/vera Amazon Shop: https://www.amazon.com/shop/balancedflyer ✈️ Flight Attendant Must Haves: Work Bag: https://go.shopmy.us/p-9829489 Work Pouches: https://go.shopmy.us/p-9829511 Water Bottle Pouch: https://go.shopmy.us/p-9829530 Toiletry Bag: https://go.shopmy.us/p-9829498 Makeup Eraser Set: https://go.shopmy.us/p-9829432 Walking Shoes: https://go.shopmy.us/p-17729783 White Noise Machine: https://amzn.to/4i2fWOs Mouth Tape: https://go.shopmy.us/p-10221784 E-mail for business inquiries only: balancedflyer@gmail.com Some of these links are affiliate links, but all opinions are my own. By buying an item from the link I receive a small commission. You are not charged more for using links. All views opinions are my own and do not necessarily reflect the opinions of my employer.

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This vlog starts in my Boston apartment in full “comfort mode”—errands, a kitchen reset I didn’t know I needed, and cooking the kind of dinner that feels like self-love. I make blackened chicken (truly one of the best things I’ve ever cooked), gluten-free capellini with a roasted cherry tomato/garlic/basil situation, and I try that viral carrot ribbon dish with tamari, rice vinegar, sesame oil, and chili crunch. I also do my favorite little snacks (cheese is non-negotiable) and share the small at-home things that make me feel grounded when life is moving too fast. Then everything shifts. I’m trying to get to Florida for my friend’s funeral, and it turns into absolute travel chaos: oversold flights, cancellations, missing multiple options, and the stress of calling out of work when it’s not considered “immediate family.” As a flight attendant and as a passenger, this has been one of the hardest summers of travel I can remember—honestly, it’s giving 2016 levels of madness. But I eventually make it, and coming home I’m still in a trance from how significant and healing it was to be there with my friends. My biggest takeaway is simple: show up if you can. Money comes and goes, schedules recover, and the stress fades—but being there for people is what you’ll remember.

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