The Urge to RAGE vs. the Power of Listening 👂

No.183 #Dailyvlog #vlog #DJIpocket3 #filmmaking #youtubetips My main camera* https://geni.us/DJI-Pocket3_Bo My stills and second camera* https://geni.us/Fuji_Xm5 My most important piece of tech* https://geni.us/Samsung-Fold5 I colorgrade all my videos with Dehancer. Use discount code YOUKNOWTHEBO for 10% off at https://www.dehancer.com * * This is an affiliate link. You do not pay more, but you will support the channel😉 Thank you very much This is my second channel. Check out my main channel here http://youtube.ISMONO.com INSTAGRAM https://instagram.ISMONO.com PODCAST on Spotify https://geni.us/IsmonoPodcast-Spotify PODCAST on Apple https://geni.us/IsmonoPodcast-Apple If you enjoy my content and you would like to support my channel, you can check out my Patreon here https://www.patreon.com/youknowthebo ARE YOU A CONTENT CREATOR LOOKING FOR ADVICE? You can book 1on1 coaching sessions. Contact me via email ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬ Back to putting in the reps! Today, I want to talk about the strange urge to comment that some people have, often before they've even finished watching a video (0:34). I share an anecdote about a 30-minute video where a commenter sent an enraged, critical comment just 10 minutes after publication (1:16). I had a similar experience on my second channel where a person called me out for something based solely on the title—they hadn't watched the video at all (2:24). The Problem of Impatient Commenting: Immediate Outrage (4:17): Some people lack the "control" to reflect before blurting out their opinion, especially when emotional. Not Waiting Your Turn (6:04): Just like in real life, many people on social media don't let others finish their train of thought before reacting and getting "all heated." The Importance of Listening and Respect (7:13): We all have freedom of speech, but we must be aware that voicing an opinion has potential consequences, and we must respect that others have the freedom to disagree (7:13). Disagreement is NOT Disrespect (8:03): Just because someone disagrees with you, it doesn't mean your opinion is without value or that they are trying to shut you down. The Power of Active Listening (8:42): The goal should be to listen, comprehend, and evaluate the other person's perspective before replying. This is a learned skill that creates a genuine dialogue, not just waiting for your turn to speak (10:21). Understanding vs. Agreement (12:57): The world would be a better place if we listened to understand where the other person is coming from. You don't need to agree, but understanding their source is vital for growth and avoiding unnecessary conflict (13:29). ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬ 0:00 - Getting back into putting in the reps 0:34 - The urge to comment without watching the video 1:16 - Anecdote 1: Commenting on a 30-minute video after only 10 minutes 2:24 - Anecdote 2: Attacking me based only on the title 3:22 - The commenter admitted they didn't watch the video 4:56 - The urge in humanity to voice our opinions 6:04 - The problem of impatience: Not letting others finish 7:13 - Freedom of speech vs. potential consequences and disagreement 8:03 - Disagreement doesn't mean your opinion is not valued 8:42 - We need to listen instead of just waiting to speak 10:21 - The importance of dialogue vs. fighting 11:56 - Why I've been replying less (Digital detox/mental health) 12:57 - The world needs more listening and understanding 13:55 - Final thoughts and outro ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬