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work-life diaries | post breakup changes, getting my life back together

61.5K views· 2,545 likes· 12:10· May 27, 2025

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Thank you Leesa for sponsoring! Visit https://qr-codes.io/DlLPQV to get $75 off your order with code JULIA75. (Excludes ancillary products, the Studio mattress, Kids mattresses, and mattress bundles) Hello friends! Thank you so much for the love and support on my last video — your comments truly carried me through some of the harder moments last week. Grief doesn’t disappear overnight, and the breakup still lingers quietly in the background. But in the meantime, life is still happening and so I want to be present for it. In this vlog, I’m easing back into the everyday: spending slow mornings alone, leaning on my friends and family, saying yes to small plans, and gently reshaping my routines. Hope you enjoy! xx, Julia [let's connect] instagram: https://www.instagram.com/julia.fei/ tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@julia.fei outfits (will update soon!): https://www.shopltk.com/explore/juliafei my sisters! • @WondereLand_Official : https://www.instagram.com/wondereland_official/ • leona's art account: https://www.instagram.com/_dabadee_/ chocobi! https://www.instagram.com/nomixchocobi/ [mentioned products] • @lilybyred4513 blush - https://amzn.to/3PrC8G1 • @oliveyoung_ad makeup sponge - https://bit.ly/3SUJVMU [about me] Hi everyone my name is Julia ~ I'm a 20-something-year-old data scientist navigating through life in NYC. You can find vlogs, fashion & beauty content, productivity videos, and more on my channel. Thanks for stopping by & I hope you enjoy :) [ftc] This video is sponsored by Leesa ♥ There are also some affiliate links above, meaning I may earn a small commission if there are any purchases through them. Thank you for supporting my channel! [business Inquiries only] email: julia@divisionmedia.co

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In this work-life diaries vlog, I’m easing back into my everyday after a breakup—still feeling the grief in the background, but trying to be present for the life that’s still happening. I take you with me through slow, quiet mornings alone, leaning on friends and family, and saying yes to small plans again. I also share a little slice of my NYC routine: anchor days at the office, the chaos of a big launch I’ve been working on for the past two months, and the tiny details that make getting ready feel a bit more like “me” (including a new blush technique I picked up in Korea). A big theme in this video is reclaiming my apartment. Being in my space was honestly really difficult for the first couple weeks post-breakup because it held so many memories, and I’m someone who attaches a lot of meaning to objects. But once I got through the thick of it (not fully out, but better), I started thinking about change—swapping and upgrading pieces to bring in new energy. That includes upgrading my mattress, plus resetting my routine with Pilates, bringing Chocobi to the office for a half day, and ending on a soft weekend note with a picnic and my first attempt at matcha mochi brownies.

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