In this video, I’m sharing a life update that I honestly never thought I’d have to say out loud: I’m going through a breakup. This was the most nervous I’ve ever felt posting on this channel—maybe even more than when I announced quitting my job—because heartbreak is so deeply personal, and for a while I couldn’t even find the words to tell my closest friends and family. I’m not here to give details or explanations. I just wanted to be honest with you because you’ve been part of my life for years, and it’s hard for me to show up on camera pretending I’m okay when I’m not. I talk about what heartbreak actually feels like in the day-to-day: sleeping two hours, not eating and then suddenly wanting to inhale everything in the fridge, showing up to work and crying in meeting rooms between calls, and even resenting my own apartment because it’s filled with memories. What’s been especially hard is that no one was “in the wrong”—I still care, I still respect him, and I truly wish him the best. This is also a love letter to all my “lover girls.” I’ve been told I have a lot of love to give—maybe too much—and I’m learning that being a lover girl means loving everywhere: in friendships, family, and the quiet moments where people show up for you. The takeaway is simple but not easy: healing is messy, it takes time, and I’m learning to put that love back into me.