This time of year always reminds me how much I’ve grown—and on the flip side, how much I still avoid. In this episode, I’m walking you through 17 uncomfortable questions I had to ask myself before the year ends, because you cannot heal what you won’t face. This isn’t about shaming yourself or doing some Pinterest-perfect “new year, new me” performance. It’s about reflection as self-respect—slowing down, taking stock, and choosing honesty over autopilot. I break the questions into mindset, relationships, boundaries, and vision. I talk about what it looks like to do shadow work in real life: noticing the stories I replay, how I speak to myself in hard moments, and whether my actions actually match what I say I want. I also get real about connection—how relationships can mirror our patterns, how some disappointment is really a boundary issue, and why I’m done dating potential. And finally, I look forward with intention: what abundance means beyond money, where I need more discipline (especially spiritually), and what I’m being called to do that requires me to be braver. My affirmation for the week is: “Being honest with myself is my top priority.” Because your future self deserves an honest present you.