In this GIRLS CHAT GRWM, I’m getting ready while we talk about real girlhood stuff—leveling up your feminine energy, navigating friendships, boy troubles energy, and even influencer tea. I’m reading your questions straight off my phone, so it’s super chill and chitchat-style (and yes… I’m a yapper, I’m sorry). I share what’s actually helped me step into my soft girl era: making sacrifices for the life you want, getting up and looking presentable even on “nothing” days, wearing jewelry and fragrance to feel like that girl, and romanticizing the mundane—because you get to do these things. I also get into beauty + creator life topics like my ride-or-die transfer-proof setting sprays (high-end and drugstore), what I’d change about the makeup industry (the beauty standard and fatphobia, period), and the qualities that make me me—being nurturing, having boundaries, and staying grounded in my relationship with God. And for my up-and-coming creators, I give the real: start with what you have, stay consistent, build relationships with brands and community, and don’t let strangers ruin your day on the phone bill you pay. If I don’t like a comment, I’m deleting it.