Breaking the Cycle of Repressed Needs & Avoidant Shutdowns | Psychologist Explains

Take our attachment style quiz 👉 https://ar-code.men/attachment-quiz A common theme amongst avoidants is repressed needs, fear of failure and a sense of not being good enough, of being deficient. All of that is below the surface, though, these are things you can’t see from the outside, and sometimes you might not be aware of them yourself. A common avoidant symptom of that inner dynamic that is visible on the outside is what’s called an avoidant shutdown - withdrawal from closeness, shutting down, going cold or numb, spending a lot of time alone. In this video you'll learn how the things below the surface and the shutdown are connected and what to do, so you don't shut down anymore. ❃❃❃ The Avoidant Reset Code ❃❃❃ Our attachment work program for avoidant men: https://ar-code.men/ ❃❃❃ My Webpage ❃❃❃ https://maikasteinborn.com/ ❃❃❃ What To Watch Next ❃❃❃ ▶ 10 Signs You Might Be Avoidantly-Attached https://youtu.be/FLAnnTaepvs ▶ 10 Behaviors To Notice & Change For Avoidants https://youtu.be/Zhq14RL8GHs ▶ Why You Can’t Feel Safe with Each Other — Even When You Care Deeply, Breaking the Anxious-Avoidant Cycle https://youtu.be/N_-JMkc4Jug ❃❃❃ Helplines ❃❃❃ If you're struggling and need immediate support, please reach out to a helpline in your country. You're not alone. 📞 USA: National Suicide Prevention Lifeline – 988 (24/7) 📞 UK: Samaritans – 116 123 (24/7) 📞 Canada: Talk Suicide Canada – 1-833-456-4566 (24/7) 📞 India: Vandrevala Foundation Helpline – 1860 266 2345 / iCall – +91 9152987821 📞 Australia: Lifeline – 13 11 14 (24/7) 📞 Germany: Telefonseelsorge – 0800 111 0111 / 0800 111 0222 (24/7) You can also find more support options at befrienders.org. 💙 ❃❃❃ Video Chapters ❃❃❃ 00:00 Introduction 01:02 The Shutdown Explained 02:58 Analyze 04:33 Believing You Need to Be Superhuman 06:14 Your Needs Are Legitimate 06:49 Examples 08:38 Two Rails of Emotional Connection 09:47 Attachment Work Program for Avoidant Men ❃❃❃ Video Editing ❃❃❃ Deva Acharya Yaksic ❃❃❃ Music & Sound Effects ❃❃❃ You're No Help - Silent Partner https://bit.ly/2XcJkJbClick Sound Effects - Free Sound https://bit.ly/2zYikVK ❃❃❃ Disclaimer ❃❃❃ I do not make any warranties about the completeness, reliability and accuracy of the information given on this channel. Any action you take upon the information on this channel is strictly at your own risk, and I will not be liable for any losses and damages in connection to the use of my channel. The information I provide cannot be taken as a substitute for advice, diagnosis or treatment by mental health professionals. Please consult your health professionals before making health-related decisions. #avoidantattachment #avoidant #avoidantattachmentstyle Keywords: attachment styles, avoidant attachment style, healing avoidant attachment, how to heal avoidant attachment, heal avoidant attachment style, what helps avoidants heal, avoidant attachment style healing, avoidant attachment style in relationships, avoidant attachment explained, avoidant attachment in marriage, avoidant attachment love, avoidant attachment to secure, avoidant attachment style how to overcome