If most people say who you marry is the most important choice, why don't we put effort in searching?

If most people say who you marry is the most important choice, why don't we put effort in searching? Shane and Ike talk about the myth that love is supposed to “just happen” without effort. They challenge the belief that relationships are all fate and no work, pointing out that many people claim love is a top priority but put in the least effort to find or nurture it. Shane shares how rejection, intentional socializing, and building relational skills helped him meet his wife—not destiny. Their message is clear: if love really matters, stop being passive and start showing up for it. IG: @ikesinspiration Email: ikeokwerekwu@gmail.com Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ikes-inspiration-podcast/id1740969112 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3zCOG5JpBroIVOCD54i5Ag?si=ed10bfc585df4d37 To book an appointment, use this link: https://calendar.app.google/JVNmqDSUWmyna1Su5 #ikesinspiration #podcastinspiration #wordsofwisdom #themarathoncontinues #championsadjust