having aura is just being okay with looking stupid

want to freelance? watch this beginner masterclass: https://youtu.be/RZnnvwnrEYs?si=grp8C70D_LDETAM2 🎀 weekly freelancing breakdowns: https://shefreelances.kit.com/youtube 🎀 Substack article mentioned: https://open.substack.com/pub/bonesawmd/p/craniotomy-dissection-of-your-human?utm_campaign=post-expanded-share&utm_medium=web listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/69ax0VAk10AMjB0Et6jmx4 listen on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pretty-philosophical/id1818658785 🎀 let’s stay connected 🎀 she freelances instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shefreelances/ personal instagram: https://www.instagram.com/deneetamia/ linkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/denee-seaton/ tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@deneetamia in this video i break down what “auramaxxing” actually means beyond the internet version. i talk about how the fear of looking stupid controls your life, keeps you playing small, and stops you from becoming someone people are naturally drawn to. my goal is to get you to rethink your relationship with embarrassment, failure, and being seen… because that’s where "aura" is actually built. i also share personal examples from building my freelance business, putting myself out there, and doing things that felt uncomfortable at the time but changed everything. if you’ve ever held yourself back, overthought how you come across, or felt like you lack that “it” factor… this is the reframe. - hey, i’m denée 🎀 i talk about life design, the underlying architecture of how your life actually gets shaped. your reality is built from your beliefs, the ones you inherited without questioning, the patterns you repeat, and the version of yourself you reinforce through your daily actions. everything i share comes from that lens. how you think, how you see yourself, what you tolerate, and what it actually takes to change. creative strategy and freelancing are a big part of my world because they gave me the freedom to explore all of this in real time. i’ve never worked a corporate job. after graduating, i scaled my freelance business to six figures in 18 months, paid off my student debt with freelance income, and built she freelances™, where i help women do the same. on this channel, i break down creative strategy, freelancing, building a freelance business, getting freelance clients, and turning your skills into income in the current economy. i also talk about why specialised knowledge, creative strategy, and freelancing are becoming the future of work. at the core, this is about becoming someone who can design their life and get paid for it. love you, mean it 🎀 - 🎀 in this video 🎀 [0:00] intro [2:19] why fear kills your aura [4:00] protecting your image vs actually growing [6:39] confidence comes after the embarrassment [9:00] reframing fear into curiosity