💌 Get TMP Times in your inbox every Monday. Start your free 7-day trial 👉🏽 https://www.themompsychologist.com/tmptimes 💌 Free Parenting Script Pack: https://themompsychologist.com/script-pack Why do kids behave so well in public but push boundaries at home? In this episode, we dive into the real reasons behind challenging behavior, the power of clear expectations, and why more patience isn’t always the answer. Discover practical strategies for setting effective boundaries, teaching respectful communication, and handling tough moments without resorting to punishment. Plus, get answers to real parent questions about backtalk, sibling conflict, and more. Enjoy! Important note: This applies to neurotypical children or when neurodivergence has already been considered. If your child might be neurodivergent, the "perfect at school, difficult at home" pattern often indicates masking and genuine depletion rather than boundary-testing. It's *still* important to focus on guiding children's behavior through respectful boundaries, teaching, and clear expectations. Chapters 00:00 - The Surprising Truth About Kids’ Behavior at Home 01:09 - What Boundaries Really Mean (And What They Don’t) 04:36 - Boundaries vs. Punishment: Clearing Up the Confusion 06:07 - Home as a Safe Space But With Limits 10:34 - Setting Boundaries and Consequences That Actually Work 12:45 - Why Consistency Is Key (Even When It’s Hard) 14:15 - Step-by-Step: How to Set Boundaries With Your Child 18:58 - Q&A: Handling Backtalk and Sibling Conflict 24:24 - Q&A: Boundaries at the Park: Avoiding Threats and Power Struggles 28:14 - Q&A: When Consequences Don’t Seem to Work LET'S BE FRIENDS! ► Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themompsychologist ► TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@themompsychologist BUSINESS INQUIRIES ONLY ►hello@themompsychologist.com DISCLAIMER: All content I create, including this video is for educational purposes ONLY. This is not meant to diagnosis or treat any mental health conditions or substitute mental health treatment in any way. Please consult with your child's pediatrician or a local mental health provider when considering trying new interventions.

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