5 Phrases That Sound Like Backtalk But Are Actually Healthy Communication

💌 Get TMP Times in your inbox every Monday. Start your free 7-day trial 👉🏽 https://www.themompsychologist.com/tmptimes 💌 Free Parenting Script Pack: https://themompsychologist.com/script-pack 💌 Follow me over on Instagram - http://www.instagram.com/themompsychologist "That's not fair." "You're not the boss of me." "I don't want to." If those phrases make you want to lose your mind, this video is for you and you are not alone. In this episode I'm breaking down why these phrases aren't actually disrespect, what's really happening developmentally when your child pushes back, and the exact scripts to respond in the moment without shutting them down or losing your authority. I also talk about why the skill of saying "I don't want to" at age 5 is the exact same skill that will protect your teenager later. If you want more scripts for defiance, aggression, and sibling conflict, grab my free Script Pack at the link below. It's free and I use these phrases with my own kids. 💌 Free Parenting Script Pack: https://themompsychologist.com/script-pack Chapters 00.26- Intro 00:44- What's Actually Developing 02:30- The 5 Phrases and What They Really Mean 05:20- Healthy Communication vs. Actual Disrespect 09:06- Scripts That Hold the Boundary and Honor Their Voice LET'S BE FRIENDS! ► Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themompsychologist ► TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@themompsychologist BUSINESS INQUIRIES ONLY ►hello@themompsychologist.com DISCLAIMER: All content I create, including this video is for educational purposes ONLY. This is not meant to diagnosis or treat any mental health conditions or substitute mental health treatment in any way. Please consult with your child's pediatrician or a local mental health provider when considering trying new interventions.