chatty Q&A | friendships, boundaries, life goals, work/life balance + more

in this vlog, i’m answering your questions from instagram and sharing a little life update. i talk about my struggles with seasonal affective disorder and how i manage it, introduce my new cat matcha (and my plans to get another ragdoll kitten named chai), and explain why i keep my relationship private even though i get asked about it all the time. i also get into my journey as an influencer, the struggle of balancing personal and work life, and my recent realization that i’m actually such a homebody. plus, i briefly touch on my relationship with my parents and share where i’m at with the idea of having kids in the future. ♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO: 00:00 Welcome and Life Update Introduction 00:27 Mental Health Struggles and Coping Mechanisms 02:59 Settling in with Matcha and Future Plans 04:03 Privacy in Relationships and Personal Boundaries 07:35 First Payment Experience and Living in London 09:46 Balancing Personal and Work Life 10:50 Struggles with Being a Homebody 13:03 Relationship with Parents 14:39 Being a South Asian Influencer 15:52 Coping with Hectic Life and Friendships 18:39 Decision on Not Having Children 21:09 Conclusion and Thank You MY SELF-GROWTH JOURNAL: https://tamkaur.com/products/growthjournal MY NEWSLETTER: https://tamkaur.com/ ORDER MY BOOK: https://geni.us/TamKaurBook SNAPCHAT [DAILY VLOGS & BTS]: https://www.snapchat.com/add/tamxkaur?locale=en-GB MY OUTFITS & OTHER LINKS: https://www.shopltk.com/explore/tamkaur?referrer=https%3A%2F%2Fl.instagram.com%2F FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100066437389994 MAIN CHANNEL: https://www.youtube.com/@tamkaur INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/tamkaur/?hl=en TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@tamkaur_ PODCAST: https://linktr.ee/selfobsessed ALL LINKS: https://stan.store/tamkaur business contact: tam@mvetalent.com Music Used: Music by Chilly Kitty - she called again - https://thmatc.co/?l=D8AA7CBD Music track: aromatic by massobeats Source: https://freetouse.com/music Background Music for Videos (Free) Music by Chilly Vic - queen kitty's serenade - https://thmatc.co/?l=66A8C3DC