hello hello! in this video i’m officially 21, so i’m sitting down and sharing 20 things i learned at 20. it’s basically a little life check-in—friendships, relationships, confidence, boundaries, and all the stuff i wish i could’ve told myself earlier. i talk a lot about love (like not regretting giving it out), how relationships ebb and flow, and why i try to treat my friends the same way people tend to only treat an SO. i also share a mindset shift i had to unlearn—leaving people before they leave me—and how i’ve had to face this fear of being replaceable. i go into lessons that honestly apply to school, student teaching, and just being a person: good leaders stay humble, diversifying your interests matters, and being yourself is literally an advantage. i also talk about privacy (everyone doesn’t need to know your business), trust being a two-way street, and how some of my best times came right after my worst. i end with the big ones: feel your emotions all the way through, don’t ghost people, take advice with a grain of salt, trust your gut, stand your ground because you’re worthy, find balance, and get uncomfortable—because that’s where growth actually happens.