Hello, hello, hello my bosses. In this video I’m having the self-awareness conversation nobody wants to have: body odor, hygiene habits, and how all of that ties directly into confidence after 35. I’m talking to my nieces, my aunties, my sisters—because once you hit a certain age, confidence can feel like a wobble board. And when it comes to odor, I need you to hear me: every body chemistry is different. If your bacteria turnover is higher and you tend to carry BO, that is nothing to be embarrassed about. It just means you may need more frequent upkeep and you’ve got to find the right “cocktail” that works for you. I also share how I’ve refined my own standards as my body composition changed—because what worked in our 20s doesn’t always work later. Part of elevation is knowing thyself, not chasing trends, and choosing what actually complements your skin chemistry, including fragrance. I weave in a few empties (body oil, perfume, skincare serum) and explain how soft, healthy skin and smelling good supports my confidence—inside and out. And as always, I bring it back to faith: the most amazing thing we can do is look forward to what God has for us and enjoy each day we’re blessed to see on this time side of life.