Watch me transform from “I’ve neglected my hair for two months” to a real postpartum hair reset that actually feels like I’m pouring back into myself. I’m about 7 months postpartum with baby number three, and this is the start of my new series, Becoming Her—because if I’m not good, I can’t show up as my best for everyone else either. In this video, I’m focusing on my natural type 4 hair with a much-needed wash day reset to help me manage postpartum shedding (this is my third time experiencing it, so I’m not panicking—just being intentional). I start by using aloe vera as a pre-poo for hydration and scalp support, then I go in with Kaleidoscope Miracle Drops around my edges and massage it in to stimulate circulation and support growth. Since I’m wearing a wig, I prep my hair in a way that gives me options—creating both a side part and a middle part before braiding. I use the OG Blue Magic for extra hydration while I braid, and I keep everything loose (especially around my edges) because tight styles are not it when you’re shedding. To finish, I install a glueless wig and test out Frontal Queen for the first time (I only did one layer because I take my wigs off at night). Then I add soft, effortless curls with a Hot Tools curling iron. Real life included—yes, I had to pause for my baby—because mom life is real.