Two days ago I proposed to my dream wife, Catalina, and in this video we tell the real story of how it happened so fast—and why I’m not apologizing for it. From the outside it looks “crazy” because it was only two months from our first date, but my whole mindset is simple: you commit, and then you figure the rest out. Relationships will always have problems and arguments, and without real commitment people just bounce the moment it gets uncomfortable. Marriage is different. I also break down what prepared me for this. About a year and a half ago I started studying relationships hard because money doesn’t equal success. I read a ton, watched podcasts, and the biggest game-changer was “How to Be a 3% Man” by Coach Corey Wayne—especially the idea that the courtship never ends and you have to understand masculine/feminine dynamics. I’m big on manifestation too, so I did the exercise: list what I want and don’t want in a wife, then write a love letter like she already exists. The wild part is Catalina had a Google doc describing her dream husband… and it was basically me. We talk through our first dates in Colombia, how I kept my messages nonchalant and direct, how we aligned on values fast, and the practical steps we took (parents + a real trip together) before I popped the question.