Life and Romance With Autism-Cassy (March 2026 Update)

Soft White Underbelly update interview and portrait of Cassy, an autistic woman in New York. For ad-free, uncensored videos and plenty of exclusive content please subscribe to the Soft White Underbelly subscription channel at softwhiteunderbelly.com. It's $10 a month and watchable on Apple and Android mobile apps, Roku TV, Apple TV and Amazon Fire. 0:00 –The Viral Lie To Find A Boyfriend 1:46 –50+ Dates In A Few Weeks 3:27 – Autism & Wanting A Family 4:18 – Doubts About Her First Boyfriend 6:00 – Dating Someone More Attractive 7:03 – Family Reaction & Intervention 9:40 – Autism, Amygdala Issues & Emotional Disconnect 13:16 – Being Assaulted 15:20 – Fear Of Intimacy & Pushing Him Away 18:22 – Body Image, Online Hate & Self-Esteem 20:32 – Dating, Sex & Trying To Make Him Happy 21:49 – “I Don’t Know What Happiness Feels Like” 25:23 – Female Incels & Wanting A Family 28:01 – Power Dynamics & Dating Apps 30:02 – Going Viral & The Consequences 36:01 – Masking Personality & Autism 40:00 – Sleeping With Weapons & Fear 45:21 – Love As An Exception 47:10 – Rebranding After The Viral Moment 49:21 – Living With Many Personas 51:00 – Planning A Future Together Abroad 52:16 – Two Oddballs Finding Each Other Here's how to purchase the Soft White Underbelly books and merch: https://softwhiteunderbelly.org #swu #softwhiteunderbelly #documentary #marklaita #update #autism #anxiety #mentalhealth