In this video I’m bringing you along for one of those core-memory moments: our toddler Vitto meeting his newborn baby brother for the first time. I filmed it in real time, with all the emotions and the little reactions you don’t want to forget—because this is the stuff I’ll replay forever. If you’re pregnant with a toddler at home (or you’re about to be), this is your gentle reminder that the first meeting doesn’t have to be perfect to be beautiful. I also share what it actually looks like to spend a night with a newborn—aka the newborn “schedule” that isn’t really a schedule yet. I’m in my soft era, so I’m keeping it simple: focusing on feeding, settling, and getting through the night in a way that supports recovery and keeps things calm for the whole house. This is very much real-life newborn care, postpartum vibes, and the behind-the-scenes of navigating two under two. If you’re in your own motherhood reset season, I hope this gives you comfort, ideas, and that “okay I’m not alone” feeling.