Everyone’s the Main Character… and It’s a Problem

*OPEN FOR MORE* hi guys 🫶 today we’re doing something a little different… cooking dinner and having a full-on yap session (because apparently I can’t just do one thing at a time). we’re making my go-to steak salad while diving into a topic that’s been living rent-free in my brain lately: ✨ main character energy… but is it actually toxic? ✨ we talk about: - why “everyone wants a village but no one wants to be a villager” - how self-care culture might be getting taken a little too far - the shift in friendships + showing up for people - social media’s role in making us feel connected… without actually being connected - why being the “main character” shouldn’t mean treating people like background characters this one gets a little ranty, a little deep, and a little too honest…but that’s the vibe lately. moral of the story: show up for your people. balance is hot. being selfish 24/7 is not. love you guys so much, thanks for being here 💌 xx lily My Amazon Favs: https://www.amazon.com/shop/lilyyswain Some of my fav products! OLA Plex Hair Treatment - https://amzn.to/3dZdYfB Mask of Magnaminty - https://www.lushusa.com/face/masks/mask-of-magnaminty/9999900411.html Dry Shampoo - https://amzn.to/38eVqXD Heat Protectant - https://amzn.to/380LPU6 Curling Iron - https://amzn.to/3i0Mb1H Check Out More of My Fav Products: https://www.amazon.com/shop/lilyyswain?ref=ac_inf_hm_vp 》》》》》》》》》》》》》》》》》》》》》》》》 Stalk me on social media!! INSTAGRAM - http://www.instagram.com/lilyyswain TIKTOK - https://www.tiktok.com/@lilyyswain 》》》》》》》》》》》》》》》》》》》》》》》》 ATTENTION COMPANIES: If you are interested in working with me, want me to review an item, or anything else, feel free to email me lilyswainbusiness@gmail.com 》》》》》》》》》》》》》》》》》》》》》》》》 if you see this comment your fav meal 》》》》》》》》》》》》》》》》》》》》》》》》 KEYWORDS main character energy, toxic self care, friendship in your 20s, loneliness epidemic, social media and friendships, showing up for friends, lifestyle vlog, cooking and talking vlog, relatable girl ta