In this video I’m sharing what I actually think is the best shaping underwear for everyday wear, and I’m doing it with a full Shapermint try-on moment. Valentine’s Day is usually all about spreading love to everyone else, but I wanted to flip that and focus on us—because confidence starts with how you feel in your own clothes. Shapermint challenged me to write a #SelfLoveLetter, and I’m inviting you to do it too, because little self-love practices like that genuinely help you show up better as a woman (and yes, as a busy mom). I’m wearing Shapermint Essentials and Truekind pieces that are meant to be “throw on and go” basics—stuff like a scoop neck cami, a wireless bralette, seamless briefs, shaping leggings, and high-waisted shaper shorts. I talk through why these kinds of pieces work for real life: under everyday outfits, for smoothing without feeling like you’re suffocating, and for building that foundation that makes getting dressed so much easier. I also share the Valentine’s Day sale details and my code CHASSIDYVDAY20 for an extra 20% off if you want to try the same essentials I’m wearing.